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August 01

I really do not have definite answer about this question. In my entire life (for 28 years) I had met few type of friends, some are still alive, some are already dead (and I mean passed away), some are still keep contact, and some are MIA (Missing in Action)...

Friends - from the dictionary's definition.

A person whom one knows, likes and trusts
A person whom one knows, an acquaintance.
A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade
One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.

Suddenly I had this thought in my mind, too many types of friends that around you, some are just make use of you while you are still useful. Some of them just want to chit-chat with ya, some of them that might seem so careful about you, concern about you, but in actual fact, he/she might betray you one day (I had experience this too many times)....

How much will you trust a friend? We always call he/she is my best friend, best buddy, best mate. We do not have any secrets among us. Are you sure that really do not have secret at all? I had used to say this word before, but I might be wrong in the future.

Sometimes I do hope that I better know no one to be my friend. I realised that sometimes I feel really happy when I didn't keep contact to some of my friends, just let it think what they wanna think, I'm not even respond to their SMSes or emails.

I might be too free today and nothing to do in the office..... that's why just put the blog here....

1:41 PM | Blog it | My Words

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jceleste jcwrote:

It's jz kinda complicated. Hard to differetiate. Feel tired to think ...

Just always be happy with frens who concern me without thinking whether he/she is true..make my life easier.

Sometime we think too much might influence our action. :)

Aug. 29

elel sasawrote:

I was thinking the definition of Friends last night. I think friend can betray u as well as your loved one at anytime. (Another way- ppl to get survive too, there's no such a constant friend though). But i think a good friend is always be there to for you (maybe not all the time, but she/he remembered & cares about u even sometimes they disagree/mad at u..). For me, friend and lover are kinda alike. As we need to trust and respecting each other.

I think friend will be more "comfortable" than lover. Friend don't get over the hedge thru the friendship. We have less expectation for them but for lover we would. These expectation will ruin the relationship too.

Somehow it's normal that we tend to have self-defence. It's hard to find a "click" friendship. Sometimes i wondered a 'click friend' isn't tell anything they like to share to. Just like we have our self-defence on which we can share and not, and what we can do is showing the respect. You might not care what ppl think as you stay in your round circle. But if you didn't tell them how u feel (ppl wouldn't know about it). There are always misunderstand that will kill the relationship :-(( Like i say.. it's depends on how you treat the way of friendship... and i wondered how you treat the love relationship.

Aug. 3

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